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10 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Special
(Put Some Common Courtesy Back into Your Marriage)
July 2010
    Why do some relationships last forever and others fall apart? Relationships
    can fall apart when we forget the common courtesies and respect that were
    once the foundation of the relationship. Here are some ways to help your
    partner feel appreciated again.

  1. Treat your partner as you would your best friend, boss, customer.
  2. Listen as if your marriage depends on it.
  3. Remember how you first acted when you wanted to win your spouse over.
  4. Express your thoughts carefully. Being married isn’t a license to let it all hang
    out.
  5. Spend some quality time together. It’s too easy to let life interrupt. Make a
    date today.
  6. Look for ways to compliment your partner. Positive reinforcement is the best
    motivator.
  7. Hug and make eye contact when you say hello and goodbye. It feels good
    and sets the tone for more loving interactions.
  8. When you want something, say please.
  9. When your partner does something for you, say thank you.
  10. If you want to make plans that affect how your spouse will be spending time,
    check with him or her first and make sure it’s convenient.